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gary040788

Please excuse the terrible writing, I'm just not really in a good state to pay attention to grammar and spelling.


My girlfriend and I have a 1 sided open relationship. She's allowed to see and sleep with other guys and I don't.

I really don't want her to sleep with any of my friends at all. I've never said it directly to her. But I have asked, many times, for her not to sleep with my best friend. And even made her promise me she wouldn't try and meet up with him unless I was there.

So eventually she meets my best friend via MSN and within days she's giving him a blow job. after doing so, she SMS'd me to let me know. I was gutted. But didn't let her know straight away. I questioned her about how she found it and why she did it and so. And then told her to promise me not to do it again. Days later she's doing it again. This time around I told her I was devastated and asked that she stop. cutting out all the details, the two of them start getting in to ropes and handcuffs and pretty much having a free time about everything. I try to encourage her to find other men if she needs that kind of thing in her life, but she keeps telling me she only wants me and never ever wants to do anything with my friend ever again.

She knows this is killing me, but my love for her is so strong that it keeps our relationship going in spite of all this. Well last night she did it again. She said she was hanging out with him and cutting to the chase she Blew him. I get an email at 4:59am saying that the fucked up and is so terribly sorry. But this afternoon she's not longer saying she's sorry but in fact, she was lonely and he was lonely and since I don't mind he being friendly with other guys, she figured it would be all OK. Even though, time and time again, I've told her how much it kills me and how much it's destroying me on the inside and how she's welcome to the other 3 billion guys on the planet. She has to go for my best friend.

What are you thoughts on this situation?

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manmuncher
Hi everyone,

I am a 20-year-old female university student. I have just started a blog that I think people in this community might enjoy.

It is a humorous blog giving juicy true details of my tangled love and sex lives. Right now I have several guys in my life, including 'The Boyfriend', 'The Aristocrat', 'The Friend of the Ex' and 'The Bible Basher'. Come and read my witty tales to see how it all develops... You will like my blog if you're open minded and a little bit naughty!

http://manmuncher.livejournal.com

Kisses,

xManMuncherx
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foolinwithyou
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foolinwithyou
This question would be to all the men out here. What does a guy mean when he asks a woman if she likes giving head??? I was asked this right after going down on him and of course I replied Yes I do, but the fact that he had to ask is making me think he might have not liked something or I sucked at it for him. I asked him why he asked and he replied, "because You're so good at it." I just still feel unsure about why he asked. So guys what is your opinion on this scenerio.

Thanks all.
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starxoxmist
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starxoxmist
Heya
I'm new, and still working my way round here
But I thought that you all seemed to be nice people and give good advice, so I thought that this would be the best place to pose my questions....

I have recently got into my first proper relationship (with a guy, i'm a gal) and all I have ever done is kissing.... I know that we will go further, and that he has before, but I really wouldn't know what to do....lol that sounds so stupid
and so i'm pretty worried and a little scared also... :S
Because I don't want to make an idiot of myself and/or him think me absolute crap...

Okay, I'm going to shut up now
Just someone tell me that everyone was in this position once... please?
lol i'm sorry
xxxx
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battyvamp
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battyvamp
Hi,

I have a question on erection creams. How good do they work? My Fiancee is having a little problem on getting "happy" and we did some research and found out that instead of having to take pills he could use creams. So I am wondering how well they work.

Any input would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you.

Current Location: Thonotosassa Florida
Mood: busy

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uttrminayme
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uttrminayme
Hi everyone. I need some real help.

I'm seventeen years old, and recently started dating this guy named Mike. He's twenty, and he's done loads of stuff. Has had plenty of sex, knows his way around a womans body, if you know what I mean. I've been thinking about having sex with him, but thing is, I'm a virgin. I'm a little scared of how painful it will be.

We've actually tried-once on St. Patrick's Day, and once again last night. St. Patty's day, though, I was a little drunk and so was he. When we tried, he had a condom on (he always practices safe sex), and we tried almost for two hours to get it in. It went in a little, but it hurt so much, that we had to stop.

I recently told my friends about this, and one of them recommended not doing it on the bed. She said missionary style makes first times worse.

So my question is, is there any way to do this in a position with the least pain possible? Also, is there anyway to relax myself without the need of alcohol or drugs? Because I've been thinking about getting drunk and trying it...

Mood: frustrated frustrated

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sexycindybaby
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sexycindybaby
Hey all you sexy people this is cindy, and im a phone sex operator over at baycityblues. I wanted to post here to let everyone know that I cant wait to meet you all. This community sounds just like what I need and thats a person that will support me sexually. See ill admit that I actually like doing phone sex, thats why I have been doing it for so long. And another thing Ill tell everyone here the truth, I have real orgasms on the phone with my clients. I mean since im enjoying myself that comes through on the calls I do. And when I enjoy myself and relax it makes the clients enjoy themselves and relax. Im waiting on you to call me and make my day, I promise that when you do call me I will make  you so happy and furfilled that you wont be able to think of no one else ever. And thats a promise, my aim name is cindysoothesyou@aim.com my yahoo aim is bcbcindy@yahoo.com and my email address is cindy@baycityblues.com . Im hot and ready for you, dont make me wait too much longer im so hot and sexy im melting, dont you want a taste?

Mood: excited excited

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romanceculture
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romanceculture
I just started a small sexy lingerie shop and could need some advice.
If you have some minutes would be great if you could give some comments on the selection. Is it too sexy, too boring...?? Any comments are greatly appreciated!! What kind of sexy lingerie do you look for to spice up your sex life?
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tikismile
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tikismile
 I've been with my partner for 5 years and we have a baby and another on the way.  During a break we took a year before our daughter was born, I realized with a different partner that I REALLY get off if my neck or nipples are sucked  and gently bitten and from good kisses.  After I'd gotten back with my current partner, I realized that other than intercourse... we basically don't do much other than kiss each other gently on the neck.  We vary positions, and I suck on his neck, ears, nipples etc., but getting him to reciprocate is near impossible.  I've tried telling him " more" as we're doing it, or telling him "I really like it when you..." as we're warming up but it doesn't seem to be getting across.

Any advice from the men and women in the community on how to communicate my wants better?
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