I've been with my new girlfriend for almost four months and we've have been having sex with each other since then. The trouble is I can't make her cum when I'm going down on her, nor when I'm massaging her clit manually. She tells me she came once when I was using my fingers on her clit but to be honest I think she's lying.... I have no problem making her ejaculate but I'd like to give her the full monty.
I have much more experience with girls than she does and I think that she expects me to be masterful in the bedroom, which I'm sometimes up for but quite like to be 'taken' now and again too!
She claims that I'm better than many of her past partners however, they've made her cum and I haven't. I ask her to tell me what feels good, what turns her on, I try to be as perceptive as possible because I don't think she's got the confidence to give me a step by step guide on how to get her off nor does she even know what gets her off. She doesn't have a problem getting aroused, she gets wet and her clit gets very very hard but just can't seem to cum......... She is taking Prozac at the moment and is also very stressed out so maybe this has something to do with her inability to have clitoral orgasms with me or for that matter, her self!
Another problem is that I'm beginning to feel very inadequate and the whole situation is giving my ego a real bashing (which i'm aware is pretty selfish). Now when we have sex there is an awkwardness between us, mostly because I feel like she is just going through the motions to satisfy me, which I can tell you, is not satisfying.
We had a discussion a few nights ago after having sex which was really tepid. I got a bit agitated, and told her my concerns, to which her initial response was to say she felt as though I was giving her an ultimatum. She now tells me she's glad I said something (which I don't believe). Am I pressuring her too much? Is there anything that I could do to help this situation or give her an orgasm!?
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